There is a huge difference between “Asking” and “Proposing”
I have come to realized that there are so many Single Matured Females out there who are single just because they have this Male best friend.
Makes Sense? No!!!
Ok let me break it down.
You have this Male Best Friend.
You two are always around each other.
He treats you like a Blood Sister.
He is Single as well. (Well…. May be to you)
You feel incomplete whenever he is not around.
You are super excited whenever he comes around.
You two are so compactible.
Some marriages are not even as sweet as you two’s Friendship.
Matter of fact you two have been best of friends since Campus and now you two are both done with NYSC.
you two’s friendship is still waxing strong.
Your entire family knows him.
His entire family knows you.
All through your stay in Campus you were single thinking you two are indirectly dating.
All through your stay in NYSC Camp you refused to talk to any guy.
A whole year of your service for the nation, you didn’t listen to anything any guy has to say except it’s just “hi”. Why? Because you don’t want to cheat on your imaginal Boyfriend/Future Father of your beautiful children. Lol
Deep inside of you, you like him sooooooooo much. You feel, he feels the same way. He probably don’t know how to express himself yet.
People are waiting for you two to pick the Wedding Date already because they all think you two have been dating all along.
Matter of Fact, some of your admirers in your area refused to ask you out because they think you are engaged already.
Aunty hear me!!!
You were 21 when you met this darling Best Friend of yours.
Aunty you are almost 26 now.
Aunty WHEN PROPHET MUHAMMAD REFUSES TO VISIT THE MOUNTAIN FOR A WHILE, D MOUNTAIN GO FIND AM COME HOUSE OOOOOOOOOO.
Aunty!!! Arinze is not saying since he refused to ask you out that you should go and ask him out oooooooooo. ekwu ro kwam yyaa oooooooo (I nor tork like dat oooooooo in Igbo)
All I am saying is call him to a corner and ask him Bros awfaaa? Wetin dey sef? Wetin we be? You na my brother? You now just my bestie abi you get plans for us bros? Bros how e dey b?
By so doing, you are not proposing but just asking questions so as to be clear on where you stand. Amen?
You gat to break loose from that bondage you placed yourself for ages now.
You will be surprised at the answers you will get from him if care is not taken and you may develop HBP if The Lord decides not to be your strength for that period .
You fit go hia suntin like NO Naaaaaaaaa. You na my Sister naaaaaa. Haba Deborahhhhhhh you surprise me oooooooooo. See I like you so much like I like my Sisters.
I mean I can go to the estreem for you believe me but to be honest, I have never thought of going out with you talkless of thinking marriage with you.
So my dearSisters, if you find yourself in such situation with a scool mate, Colleague at work, Church Brother, Childhood Friend and so on, PLEASE ASK THEM QUESTIONS.
Asking them questions is different from ASKING THEM OUT.
The earlier you know where you stand, the better for everybody
NEVER IMAGINE THINGS.
YOU’LL JUST REALIZE THAT YOU HAVE BEEN FRIEND ZONED.
[just wanna make common sense]